have revealed their biggest turnoffs when it comes to dating women.
Have you been wondering why he never called again after the first,
second or third date? Or why he ditched you? this might be the reason.
up with the man of your dream might be easy but keeping him by your
side or getting him to take that huge step towards a marriage bound
relationship might take a little bit more efforts.
certain qualities that attract a man towards a woman and if he can’t
find it, he sees no point in sticking around much long especially if the
dude is a bachelor seeking for a serious marriage bond relationship.
Otherwise, he may stay a while longer, but when the wife material type comes along, he will gilt
Here are Men’s Top 18 Biggest Turnoffs About Women
1. High Maintenance Chics
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and social media flashy looks, men have no time for high maintenance
divas when it comes to dating. Just keep it simple while making yourself
2. Miss Questionaire
don’t like it when they feel cornered with loads of questions like
they’re expected to pass a test in a relationship. Men consider it a
total turn off and perceive women like that as husband hunters.
3. The Drama Queen
a drama queen, every situation is responded in a melodramatic way. If
you’re in this category, you need not apply for long term relation. As
men don’t appreciate women who constantly make a storm out of a glass of
water. They find such girls highly complicated and upsetting.
Especially when the drama tends towards acting rudely in public places
or bearing grudges.
4. Bad Hygiene
This applies to both
men and women who agree they can’t stand poor hygiene in their partners
it is a constant passion killer. According to men, they could be dating
the hottest girl ever, but if she has bad breath or doesn’t smell great
then a relationship is just out of the question.
5. Fake Babes (Disingenuousness)
is a typical symptom of inferiority complex and unfortunately for such
ladies, men have radars for picking up the fakes from the real. Just be
yourself, act naturally with a graceful pose, you don’t have to invent
an alter-ego or pretend to be someone carved out of Hollywood; just know
that you are amazing to the right man.
6. Overly Sexy Babe
most girls want to be the epitomes of sexy, sensual and hot, but you
don’t want to end up looking like the dream girl who’s never taken
seriously by men. Yeah! it’s cool to be sexy – only in moderation.
Being overly sexy could send the wrong message and is frankly a little
distracting for guys.
7. Miss Chatterbox
much as women are characterised by gossips and can ‘gist’ for hours
none stop, no one can stand a talkative because they tend to say
everything including concocting stories, lies and building castles in
the air – if you know what I mean (wink). And when they start with the
complaint….. eyes will be rolling with headaches.
Men find such women boring, pea brains and definitely not the type for a long term relationship.
8. Vanity Fair
hope there are few ladies like this, but constantly checking your hair,
tone up your makeup and checking your reflection while out on a date
with that man is a vanity fair. Therefore if you wish to keep him by
your side for long, you gonna have to ditch the attitude
9. Social Media Obsessed and Selfie Craze
will agree with me that social media and selfie posts are becoming an
addictive trend nowadays. Don’t get it wrong here, but the fact is, it’s
one of the biggest turnoffs for men. As it is, checking on your phone
amid conversation with someone, friends, acquaintance etc, is regarded
as being rude.
You are expected to make eye contacts with each
other and while your eyes are glued to your phone screen, shows a lack
of interest so don’t expect more from the guy.
10. Center of the Universe
people crave for attention beyond what they should get. Both sexes
agree that as much as we all deserved to be heard, one must learn also
give and not only take all the attention so as not to end up in the
11. Being Overly Controlling
like being controlled by someone. You might be a strong independent,
and probably a successful company owner, just don’t confuse being
autonomous with wanting to be constantly in the driver’s seat. Being
overly controlling is part of the huge turnoffs for men and can be an
obstacle for good relationships.
is allowed but just channel it to your date only! Some girls get
carried away and start flirting with the other more handsome just to
prove a point or make their date jealous. Watch it, ladies, you might
lose him before you even had him.
13. Too much Confidence
confident is an amazing trait and most men find it very attractive in
women except when they perceive it as being arrogant. Having an
overly-confident personality can be intimidating, irritating and that
dude will no doubt head for the hills.
14. Vulgarity and Bad Language
and use of bad language is a huge knockoff for men Imagine a guy sees a
very pretty lady whom he expects to have a refined use of the English
language and all of a sudden she act vulgar – well you guess the guy’s
reaction. Cursing comes across as very vulgar and abrupt to guys and
swearing like a sailor doesn’t give them any inclination to see you
again. Bad language is one of the turnoffs for men so avoid any bad
words and focus on giving off a great impression with more feminity.
15. Cold and Uninterested
is said that a woman’s eyes mirror her beauty, so ladies take note of
this. When your date is trying to get to know you by asking questions
and showing an interest in your life, try to reply energetically so as
to bring life and ignite some fun.
Responding with short yes or no
answers won’t enchant your date and will really turn him off, rather
smile a lot and chip some interesting topics.
16. No Determination or Life Goals
with determination and life goals are the types successful and
ambitious men look out for. Your University cert. is not enough, he
wants to hear about your goals and ambitions, not necessarily becoming a
rocket scientist, he finds it attractive knowing you also have a
success prone aim in life.
17. My ‘Ex’ Ladies
your past relationships with other men or a guy is another dating flop
and part of the turnoffs for the man. Talking about your ex whilst
dating someone new gives the impression that you are still hung up on
the relationship and aren’t emotionally available.
However, you can choose the right time to bring it up if he’s willing to take the relationship the big stage.
18. Rude Attitude
you’re the rude type, just forget it about enjoying a long-term
relationship with the man of your dreams. Give being kind and patient
some effort – not just being kind to him, also to people around you.